About Me
That’s an interesting question. “Joe, tell us a little bit About you”
The short, quick description is:
That I would describe myself as a yin/yang type of individual. In that I live life on to both sides of most extremes. I am easy going yet can be intense. I am simple yet have definite complexities.
I am very open minded and view the world not as “normal” people do. 
I am married to a wonderful woman. We have been in an open relationship for over 10 years and we have a wonderful son. He is the center of my world.
I live my life by three simple rules:
No Drama, No Drugs, and No means NO.
That would be my quick answer… to go onto the long answer I would elaborate by saying:
I am both logical and emotional at the same time. I am both geek and non-geek. I am very self-confident and at the same time can be unsure in certain situations.
I can be very easy going and laid back in most situations and yet get very intense and deep in others.
I do my best to be as straight forward as possible with most people. I feel this is important so that they know where I am coming from. If they can’t deal with or respect my views, then they don’t need to be in my life.
I am a difficult and easy person to be a friend to. (Difficult to get at first, then easy once you understand me)
I have some core beliefs:
I believe that one should place their children first and foremost in their lives. They need our guidance and are our greatest responsibility. They should also be given the room to grow and develop into their own selves.
I believe that one can love another and yet be physically intimate with other people. Separation of love and sexuality. Yet, I believe that emotional and physical intimacy enhances sex.
I believe that polyamorous relationships are possible. I have been in several, with one lasting over seven years with two women. (yes, we lived and loved together)
I do not believe in a god in the way that most people believe in god. I do not believe there is an entity that is “GOD”. I believe in the idea of god and that it is an individual interpretation and that god is in you. With that said, I follow the philosophies of Zen. I believe in things that are and is. I could go on about this for ages. So, if you really want to know more about my belief in this and what I wrote above, you’d have to meet me some day and ask.
My professional life:
I have had a wonderful career from 1986 to 2001 as a Network/Telecommunications Engineer with extensive business management experience. From 1998 to the present, I have been involved with several aspects of the adult industry encompassing web, video, and photo production.
I currently own a private internet hosting company that hosts and maintains websites for both mainstream and adult media. I have servers in Dallas, Houston, and am working on a couple more in the European and Asian markets.
Other tidbits:
I stopped drinking in August of 2007. It was something that was becoming a negative force in my life and decided it was time to stop. I am not saying I won’t ever drink again, but for now, this is my choice. I have no problems with people that may drink around me.
I smoke cigarettes. I look like I might smoke pot, but due to a certain circumstance, I have not really smoked weed since 1990. I do not mind others that do.
I have been sober from drug use since 1991. I have been addicted to and have used methamphetamine, heroin, and cocaine. I prefer NOT to have people that use these drugs around me at all.
