Proper provider experience Part 2

May 13, 2009 by · 1 Comment
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In a previous post “What a proper experience with a provider should be“, I put up some high points on what a “Girl Friend Experience” should be.  In that post, my focus was on the technique.  Since that post, I have had several conversations with my wife, and other providers, and have realized that I missed a key element, the “experience” itself.

The one key element I have missed is the “girl friend” or companion part.  What separates Kristen from other providers, aside from hitting the “functional” points brought up in my previous post, is that she is able to make me FEEL like she is my girlfriend or companion the ENTIRE time I am with her.  This is the main reason why I felt compelled to write about my experience with her.

This is THE rare quality that I believe certain providers posses and most cannot achieve.

What gave me this light bulb is simple.  Angel said to me this morning…  “[When with a client] the SEX is easy.”

To clarify, it’s easy to fulfill the points in the list I made in my other post.  I think anyone could do that.  But what makes the session is the time spent not having sex.  How that time is filled up, if it’s awkward or uncomfortable, then it’s not good.  Both Kristen and Angel’s talents are the ability to make you FEEL like they genuinely care about you and being there with you.   This my friends, is what GFE truly is.

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One Response to “Proper provider experience Part 2”
  1. J says:

    I absolutely agree with Angel. in Angel’s comment to you.

    Angel said to me this morning… “[When with a client] the SEX is easy.”

    Both Kristen and Angel’s talents are the ability to make you FEEL like they genuinely care about you and being there with you. This my friends, is what GFE truly is.

    Angel does! and the time talking etc. is as much fun or even more important than the sex.

    J

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