What a proper experience with a provider should be

My wife has been a “provider” for just over 10 years now.  I have been a “hobbyist” for about 20 years.  My wife was not a provider when we met, this was something she got into after we were married.  It was something she wanted to try on her own accord and I supported her. Really, I am not a jealous person.

““Love” is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own… Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy.” — Robert A. Heinlein

I preface this post with that paragraph because I have not “sessioned” with my wife.  But, I know the caliber of service she provides.  As a hobbyist, I have learned to use her as the bar in which I would rate other providers.  I believe she exemplifies what a true GFE “Girl Friend Experience” should be.   She has many reviews that state such.

What I classify as a good experience, or a proper “Girl Friend Experience” is:

1. There should never be any discussion of money or time once the session begins
2. It should feel comfortable and not rushed
3. Kissing should be allowed (at least to LFK – beyond should be determined by passion/chemistry)
4. Blow Jobs should be done uncovered (I have never had a girl friend that blew me with a condom)
5. You should be allowed to go down on the provider (DATY)
6. If there are awkward moments, the provider should handle it gracefully and with tact. (equipment failure, condom use, etc)
7. During the session, you should not be interrupted with cell phone use/answering by either party.
8. The session should last the full duration of the time requested/compensated
9. At the end, the provider should offer a warm cloth to clean “the mess” or offer to shower together.
10. It should end with some pleasant conversation and a warm hug/kiss.

These classifications and expectations come from personal experience and discussions with my wife on her techniques.  From what I know, she meets all of the above and then some.

Every once in a while, I still dabble in the hobby.  I’ll make an appointment and session with a provider.  I’ve had some good experiences and most are so so.   I do my due diligence and read reviews, after all, I do look for value for my money.  I try to see how well the reviews stack up to my list of requirements.

Usually, my experiences with a provider fall short.  Some miss several points, but most miss one or two.

However, I met a provider tonight that for me, met all of the above.  I have to admit, I was a bit leary with the “gamer” girl attitude and the youth.  Normally, providers 30+ are the ones that will meet the above criteria.  She’s  23, with great rates, and attitude.  I honestly had a really good time with her.

She’s very careful about her screening process. (as is my wife)  If you are interested in knowing more about her, please visit her site at (site removed since she no longer offers services)

I look forward to introducing her to my wife

Oh, for those of you interested in my wife’s site: http://www.angelgirl.com/

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